I feel like i'm not good enough for my guy?

he is a competitive kind of guy, he was competitive in the marines and he still is now. He likes to keep in top shape, and takes care of himself.

The problem is, he is critical of other people, he cant see how people can let themselves go. I love him to pieces, but i'm due to go and stay with him and all I can think is i should get a bikini wax, get my nails done, get my hair done, take my make up. Hope that my hair doesn't get too messed up, cos he doesn't like curly hair. wear sexy underwear, work out in between times and hope it is enough for him.

He says he loves me, and he doesn't see why i dont think i'm sexy, so part of the problem is me. but then i know he wants me done up like this. he really wants to be able to walk out with me and be proud and all that stuff. am i wrong to feel stressed out about it??

I feel like i'm not good enough for my guy?

I know what it is like thinking the guy you are with is so much more attractive/ smart/ whatever, and you are scum compared to him. In reality though, the stress is not worth it. You spend all of your time in the gym or salon (and there is nothing wrong with wanting to look nice or be healthy) just to live up to someone else's expectations. Why? Shouldn't he accept you for who you are? If you like to work out and do your nails and all that, great. But if I were you, I wouldn't knock myself out doing things just because a man wants you to. Whatif he is the one- will you do all of this for the next 60 years?? If you stop wearing makeup and straightening your hair, will he still love you? It takes more work for a woman to be in bikini-model mode than it is for a guy. He doesn't need to put on makeup, shave his legs, and buy cute thongs. If he cannot be proud of taking you out when you look like a slob, he isn't good enough for YOU. I realized this one day when my bf (now husband) wanted to go out to eat casually, and I complained about having to change my clothes and oh my hair is all messed up and I have no makeup, and all he said was "so what. I like how you look". A true love will love you no matter what the outside looks like. Good luck.

I feel like i'm not good enough for my guy?

If he really likes you, he'll like you for the person you truly are. There's nothing wrong with changing a few things about yourself for another but changing everything is a different story. Good luck!

I feel like i'm not good enough for my guy?

it seems like he wants best for you. because if you don't look your best, you don't feel your best. it just seems he wants you to be healthy and happy, and by working out and being in top shape and looking great is the way he knows how to tell you to do it.

I feel like i'm not good enough for my guy?

Well look at it this way. He's making you into a better person. You're taking better care of your outer appearance, and if he doesn't appreciate it, there will be another guy who does. Sorry, I know you want me to say something different, but he's upping your ante. He's making you a prettier girl. Someone is going to like that some day!

I feel like i'm not good enough for my guy?

If he can't love you the way you are, find someone who does

I feel like i'm not good enough for my guy?

If he really likes you, he'll think you look good no matter what. So just be yourself. Dress the way you like and feel comfortable with. You can look nice and still dress the way you want. And the fact is, you'll feel better about the way you look if you just wear what you feel makes you look good and feel good. If he's so shallow that he doesn't think you look good unless you dress in a way that he approves of (which sounds like you r not comfortable with) then he's probably not a very nice person and he's probably not the right guy for you. The right guy will like you and your looks no matter what. I mean you r a human being. No one looks perfect all the time. If his main concern is your looks, then find someone else, who can appreciate your inner beauty as well. Good luck.

I feel like i'm not good enough for my guy?

Your guy sounds like an egocentric and narcicist kinda a guy. Just continue the way you are and if he won't accept the way you are, then he is not the right one for you. Hes only looking for a superficial beauty not what's inside. If this continues, move on baby

I feel like i'm not good enough for my guy?

dam you sound like my gf she keeps on going that she's not good enough for me... but she is... wait this is not about me this is about you... well yes your wrong to feel stressed out if he says he loves you he really do... so don't be all negative and think bad about yourself you found a good guy that loves you for who you are...